Life problem?!?!?!?!?!!?! PLEASE HELP :(?

Ok, so I guess I'll start from the beginning. I am indian and as most people know, indian's DO NOT DATE. We have arrange marriages. I am currently 16 years old. Three years ago, my childhood friend and my boyfriend of 2 years died in a car accident along with his mom and dad. Finally last year, the day of my ex-boyfriend's death anniversary, I was out bowling for my school league, and i met a guy there. He was 16. I was in a bad mood because of ex's death anyway that we met by yelling at each other. Then he added me on facebook and we instantly fell together. Our one year together just passed in April, and i couldnt get him a present, so we went to Washington D.C for a school trip for a whole day, and HAD a GREAT time. This guy, i KNOW i love. Yeah, i might be 16, but when my ex died, he taught me HOW to love before he passed away. Well today, worst day EVER! Friday the 13th :/. I was supposed to hang out with my boyfriend after school for like an hour, cause we usually only get that time to hang out because of my parents not know. And i called up my mom to ask her if i could stay after, and she started yelling, and told me to come home. I went home and saw that she had my locket, the one that my bf gave me for valentines day :/. So she started yelling and telling me that she wishes i was dead, and that she can never trust me again. Because my parents are old fasioned indians, they believe in arrange marriage. I have told them that i didnt want that, and actually sat down and talked to them about it. But they still won't understand. My boyfriend and I love each other ALOT. I can't imagine my life without him. Yeah, i might say something different later, but all i know now is i love him. :( I respect my parents decisions, but I'm confused on what to do further :'( should i break up with my boyfriend, or not? :( I already talked to my mom, and she still doesnt understand. I honestly have no idea what to do :( Please help? :(